Week 6

    1. What sacrifices have you willingly made for the sake of your marriage or spouse? How has the sacrifice impacted your marriage?


    1. Having children, cleaning house, and trying to put others first. Realizing that I am not always right, and that even if I am right, it isn't worth having hard feelings towards each other. It is more important to work together and put the Lord first, together. I think of the triangle of marriage. 
      1. Here is another question that will require soul-searching, humility, and charity: What sacrifice are you currently withholding in marriage that if given willingly, would touch your spouse or your marriage in an important way?
    3. Being more of a team player. Focusing on "our" issues and resources instead of mine. President Henry B Eyring said,"Pray for the love which allows you to see the good in your companion. Pray for the love that makes weaknesses and mistakes seem small. Pray for the love to make your companion’s joy your own. Pray for the love to want to lessen the load and soften the sorrows of your companion.
  1. Brother Goddard said, "Applying these principles to marriage requires inspiration," (p. 37). In regards to applying these principles to discipleship and marriage, what does the Spirit teach you? That it is the small and simple things that build us up for success. Regular efforts are needed to be a priority for positive behavior to start and continue. We can't improve ourselves or our marriage in one day. Having patience with ourselves and our spouses and learning to forgive is critical to success.

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