Week 11

  1. What does it mean to fulfill the sexual stewardship in marriage?
To have  or work towards a meaningful sexual relationship with your partner.  Working towards being on the same page, and respecting each others needs and desires as well as our own.
  1. From the readings, what were the two most important ideas that stick out in your mind?
That we need to make sure we are in the third mindset. That we don't shy away from talking and discussing our relationship with each other, so that we can work together for each other and ourselves. 
  1. As a married person, what are some wise precautions you will take to safeguard your marriage from infidelity?
Be mindful in how I view others, and work towards building my relationship with my husband on a consistent basis. Not comparing him to anyone, unless it is in a positive manner. Focus on his strengths rather than his flaws. 
  1. In marriage, what will you do to help protect yourself and your spouse from the damaging influence of pornography?
Be open and honest with each other. 
  1. What are the most important prophetic teachings on physical intimacy you want to remember?
That we believe in it. We should not be ashamed of it, and it is a wonderful gift given to us as couples. 

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